If you are:
Nice person looking to make your life better
Someone who is honest, cares about others
Person who deserves more of life than it is getting
You want to make life of other people better and are ready to sacrifice yourself
Guess what, you are fucking your life up!
You know why? You are weak and care more about what other people think about you.
What I just did to you is called hot reading.
If you are reading this, I am assuming you want to change your behavior and you are considering yourself these things.
There is also cold reading which is the same thing, but, without the previous knowledge of the person and using words that apply to everyone.